Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
A Heart for God
Friday, February 22, 2008
LORD...
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Truth about reality
Related to this, it seems to me, is the fact that many Christians do not mean what I mean when I say Christianity is true, or Truth. They are Christians and they believe in, let us say, the truth of creation, the truth of the virgin birth, the truth of Christ's miracles, Christ's substitutionary death, and His coming again. But they stop there with these and other individual truths.
When I wasy Christianity is true I mean it is true to total reality-the total of what is, beginning with the central reality, the objective existence of the personal infinite God. Christianity is not just a series of truths but Truth-Truth about all of reality. And the holding of that Truth intellectually-and then in some poor way living upon the truth, the Truth of what is-brings forth not only certain personal results, but also governmental and legal results.
Francis A. Shaeffer, A Christian Manifesto, pp. 19, 20.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Releasing Thoughts to Roam...
In life we must examine the things that are consuming of our precious time and whether they are worthy to take up the our space in this journey, I have found it, this place where my thoughts live to be to high on my list of priorities. My heart, mind and time have been taken advantage of and consumed.... and now I feel driven to disperse them where they rightly belong... my children, my husband, my home, my education, my children's education, my devotion to God, my life in general. I have not been rightly dividing my time among these. My thoughts need room, need space to be free to think creatively towards these important areas of my life.
From this moment on I will begin to share my heart mainly through the ideas, thoughts and hearts of others in quotes, music and art. Scripture will fill most of the spaces in here as it is the nearest to the expression of my heart. My desire as always is to encourage, inspire and uplift other like minded women in their calling of motherhood, marriage, homekeeper and in their continual walk with Christ.
My thoughts will be free to roam and express as they commune with my brain and heart in my continual growth as a teacher over at Growing Minds of Wisdom in an attempt to understand the knowledge I am obtaining and trying to retain and how I am applying it to my children's minds and experience in education.
JOYfully in Him,
Kelli
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Valentines Day with Pictures
'O Lord, Seek Us'
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
How To Say I love You?
I will make him a Heart Book Pendant of my love and appreciation. For the most part the day will go as normal for him except that he will hopefully if I do it right, uncover through out the day little notes hidden for him along with a little kiss. After the littles have all gone to sleep we will bask in the past 8 years of our love through our old love notes to eachother while in college and then watch Amazing Grace.
V-Day Prep and Ideas
Valentines is just around the corner of this evening, once again it has snuck up right behind me. So today along side of our school subjects we will be preparing for Valentines day.
One project to do together today is a String of Hearts, simply and very cute. A Lesson, a coloring page and sharing thoughts about what it means to love while reflecting on many verses in the bible.
I have some ideas up my sleeves for the boys. Here is what I have planned:
Early Morning:
Trail of Kisses... I did this last year and it was a huge hit with my boys! Simply leave a trail of Hershey kisses onthe floor leading to the place of destination. I lead them to our kitchen table full of Valentines Day suprises. The loved it! I did just simply red plastic cups last year but I think I will do little red cones made out of construction paper instead decorated with their names on them.
Homemade Cards by Momma:
T-Rex... Your Dino Mite card, perfect for my little beastly boy who is obsessed with Dinosaurs.
Superman... V-alien-tine card, perfect for my little Astronomer.
Also at the table they will find these... Checks, along with these... coupons and for a breakfast some Red Heart-y pancakes topped with whipped cream and strawberries and bananas served with pink milk.
Devotional with activities: God First Loved You!
Games: Guess how much I love you! Fill a jar with little hearts and have family guess how many are in it early in the morning and then at the end of the day reveal the winner and their prize, a special candy and coupon of free time!
Lunch: We will have heart sandwiches with a pink smoothie of some kind.
Afternoon snack: Sweet Heart Crispy Treats, with hot chocolate, a good book and a Valentine coloring page.
Game: Valentine Cup Cake Walk
Dinner: Taquitos, oh so good! We all love these except T-Rex who doesn't like a whole lot other than PB and Honey :0). After dinner we reveal our winner, enjoy some family time and go out for an ice cream cone at Micky D's. End the day with lots of kisses and hugs.
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Who will you serve today?
Saturday, February 9, 2008
The Yard Pass: Permission Denied
Now many years later in the marriage classroom we have something else that around here is oftened referred to as the "yard pass". Let me explain. The "yard pass" is the ticket to freedom given by the wife to the husband for whatever the reason of freedom might be. It is known around here by the husbands as a kind of permission slip for a field trip, there is no signing on the bottom line but there might as well be. I have been known to take pride in this holding of the "yard pass" over my husband for quite some time now. Holding the "yard pass" has given me POWER over my husband in many instances and it has felt good to possess it, until another power opened my heart to it's deception. No where else have I held any POWER nor should I. Genesis 3:16 reminds me that my desire because of Eve's (and Adam's) disobedience will always be against my husband. We have always laughed at the "yard pass" and taken it lightly but disobedience is never a laughing matter to be taken lightly. Ephesians 5:6. The truth is... God has given me NO POWER over my husband. 1 Corinthians 11:3. Just saying that sometimes makes my flesh cringe, I am to be in subjection to my husband the rightful leader and head of the home, not to be misunderstood as a doormat of course. Submission is simply gentleness in great strength. When I remember God's design for marriage I am liberated and encouraged.
The "yard pass" had it's time in our home with no authority and now my hands hold it no longer as the deception of it's power has been revealed to me and I have choosen to put it down and instead hold the POWER given to me by the cross in my marriage.
Amy, thanks for your example!
Friday, February 8, 2008
Living Intentionally ~ February
So with these "thoughts" of Living Intentionally what exactly does that mean to me? After much meditation on it this morning here is what I found:
It is a mission, a mission to live with intent, with purpose, with determination, with a thought out plan, not just living like a chicken with my head cut off, pointlessly and aimlessly. But more specifically here is what it means to me: To live, be awake to the experience of the gift of time, time here on earth as I sojourn this ground, in my daily circumstances with the continual view of eternity in front of me, intentionally, with prupose, with determination, with a thought out plan not to check off a list of to dos to make life happier and more fullfilling but ultimately and much more satisfying... to glorify God, the creator of and giver of living.
Let me tell you about my journey so far in my mission of Living Intentionally in 2008, it has been interesting as God has been near me with His gentle guidance. I am really suprised at how He has been working in my life lately...
1. I want to KNOW God, I want Him to be an extreme reality in my life, in my thoughts and deep in my heart. I want His reality to be with me everywhere, I don't just want to continue to walk through each day with an inconsistent and unrealistic and distorted view on God, I want to walk radically in love and in the knowledge of the One who made the universe and breathed life into Adam and me. This will be conceived through a disciplined and consistent time with Him each morning, I am devoting my early mornings to the Lord... completely giving Him my first hour in each new day to dwell with Him in the word, through prayer and in adoration and praise. My first steps will be taken with Him, this is not negotiable...
My mornings have been less than perfect... they have been rough. My alarm often times found me dead to sound and in a very bad mood. I decided that my first alarm just had a bad attitude and so found a new one. In an attempt to lighten the mood when I wake up I brought in a real alarm that I could set to my own cd, Shannon Wexelberg. What a difference! Instead of a drill sergent in my ear at 5:00 the sweet sounds of an angel fill my mind better preparing me for my quiet time with the Lord.
2. To crucify my fleshly desire to be over my husband and to disrepect him when we disagree or clash in thoughts. To grow with him, to daily find ways to encourage him, support him, show him undivided attention and affection, to love him more than myself and give all of my energy to him.
The Lord has been guiding me to commit to a 30 day husband encouragement challenge but I have been resisting. I have found some self control when responding in a disagreement and especially in the training of our children. I have also handed over the Yard Pass, Amy.
3. Oh to be a fun loving mother! I just want to play with them more... and enjoy them where they are. Set up 1 day each week for me to have some alone time with them seperately.
Mission... in progress. I have found myself on the floor in grossed in a game of memory several times and in a game of monster. Dancing has made a comeback around here too :0).
4. Make it a consistent habit of sending cards to family to let them know that we are thinking of them and that we love them even though we live miles away.
Better! Yes, I have been sending little notes to loved ones but I still have a lot of room for improvement.
5. Set up a childrens bible study for our neighborhood kids at our house every week or every 2 weeks.
It is set up and ready to begin next Monday! The Littles and I just have to walk the neighboorhood and pass out our invitations.
6. Surrender to the Spirit's leading in showing hospitality and being in peoples lives through prayer and daily thoughts and actions.
I am amazed at the way the Lord is leading me in this one. I can feel myself fighting hard against him though because it is going to cause me to step way outside my comfort zone. This is a daily leading that I feel... surrender near, where is my white flag?
7. To prayer for God to lead me in earning a little extra income.
I have been in prayer about this and I believe He has anwsered my pleas. I
now just have to make the moves in the direction He has lead me.
8. Find a daily cleaning and exercise routine that will work for me and my family and to drink more water with my coffee.
I have made the routines! Not to follow through. I have been doing some exercises and can feel the pain! I went for a 25 minute walk/run the other day and it felt so good, I LOVE to run! As for drinking more water.... working on it. I just kind of forget but have been doing better.
I pray that the Lord will continue to be near me as I walk on this mission and that He continues to guide, convict and remind me of my intentions. Visit Extravagant Grace for more on Living Intentionally in 2008!!
Thursday, February 7, 2008
Leave the Heart in Valentine's Day
I love the chance or opportunity that Valentines Day seems to give me to fully express my unconditional love living with in me for those dear to me. I feel like VD gives me permission to go all out, the extra mile, to be extravagant and radical with my love. This day has the power to cultivate and draw it out of it's slumber. VD is an exellent reminder of how to live out 1 John 3:18 Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. If we truly understood the meaning and origin of love then every day would be an outward expression of its identity.
Love is self sacraficing. In order for us to truly love one another we must be willing to hang ourselves... to crucify our flesh, otherwise our attempts to walk in love (Eph. 5:2) will proove to be in vain. Think about Eph. 3:19... how amazing is that? The "love of Christ" it is to deep, to immeasurable, that it surpasses the knowledge of our minds. We can not truly grasp or wrap our fingers around the heart of it, the self sacraficing, steadfast love of Jesus Christ. Can you imagine being controlled by this love, the love of Christ? What would happen to us? Could we possible stay the same? If we were to hand the controls of our heart over to Him we would be living a radically different life of love, completely self sacraficing.
The heart of love is often left behind in all of our attempts on Valentines Day and nothing but selfish gratification is shown disguised as something that looks, smells, and even tastes like love. We buy, we express, we show only because we are told to not because we want to and if we don't then we have failed. This day should not be all that different, when the heart of the matter is concerned, than any other day. Don't you agree?...Okay, just incase you heard this: "I hate Valentines Day, think it is a joke and completely self gratifying and stupid" let me clarify my statement as simply this: "I love Valentines Day but do feel that it has a tendency to draw out a superficial unrealistic expression rather than a true radical selfless expression of the heart, where the heart is no longer the source of motivation but the gift and praise that takes it place."
Thank LaughaDaisy for my Valentines Day ramblings today and for her generosity to give away a blog design by Summer at Designs by Summer!
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Weekly Cleaning Schedules
*Monday…
Room Focus: Children’s Room and Office Day: trash duty, straightening and wall wiping
Laundry: Help fold and put away their laundry and towells
15 minute Project: write letter, color a picture or draw a picture to friend
*Tuesday…
Room Focus: Bathroom and Hall Closet: trash duty
Laundry: none
15 minute Project: color picture for FMW
*Wednesday…
Room Focus: Master Bedroom: trash duty
Laundry: none
15 Minute Project: make something for FMW
*Thursday…
Room Focus: Kitchen: trash duty, wall swiping and toy collecting from under appliances
Laundry: none
15 Minute Project: write a get well, thinking of you or praying for you card to someone
*Friday…
Room Focus: Living Room and Play Room: organize 3 boxes of toys each and straighten desks
Laundry: fold and put away
15 Minute Project: Simple craft for FMW
*Saturday…
Room Focus: Outside and Cars: clean up toys in yard
Laundry: none
15 Minute Project: Package up FMW art and address envelope with stamp
**Laundry to be started early and done early.
***family member of the week
Momma’s Weekly Cleaning Schedule:
*Monday…
Room Focus: Children’s Room and Office Day
Laundry: Superman and T-Rex's along with Towells
15 minute Project
*Tuesday…
Room Focus: Bathroom and Hall Closet
Laundry: Butterfly and Expresso
15 minute Project
*Wednesday…
Room Focus: Master Bedroom
Laundry: Expresso and Momma
15 Minute Project
*Thursday…
Room Focus: Kitchen
Laundry: Butterfly and Momma
15 Minute Project
*Friday…
Room Focus: Living Room and Play Room
Laundry: Superman, T-Rex and Towells
15 Minute Project
*Saturday…
Room Focus: Outside and Cars
Laundry: Butterfly and Expresso
15 Minute Project
**Laundry to be started early and done early.
I just made and printed these cleaning schedules out to put in my much neglected homemanagement binder and I thought I would share them, I love seeing how others manage their home, enjoy! I left my projects empty so I could pick what was most demanding of my attention at that time.
Memory Verse with thoughts
Our memory verse for this week makes me stand in awe of our Mighty God, overflow with gratitude for His gift and brings me to praise! To Him be the glory forever! Amen.
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
What's in your cup?
What has the Lord filled your cup with today or this year? Are you struggling to embrace it and let go of your own preconceived ideas of how things were suppose to go according to the powerful you? Let me share this about myself: I hate and struggle against change. When I realize that all of my easy, delightful well thought out perfect plans have been divinely changed I go into deep battles with in to stay composed and obedient to my faith. What I fail to remember in these moments of inconvenient change is that His will is far larger and profoundly more important than my petty self absorbed will.
We are given the opportunity to embrace His will for our life, our day our every moment. His perfect will is being played out in every detail of our life, don't underestimate the little things in life to be insignificant in His overall will for our life. I know that we all have our own cups that we pray God would take away from us or change but maybe it is time to simply or at least get ready to embrace and find the blessings in it and focus on the glory that can be brought forth from it to Him.
Monday, February 4, 2008
A Sick/Work Day
So, today I will be nursing my little sickling back to good health and taking a work day for myself while I tackle the play demands of a child left behind and a baby in desperate need of all my attention!